Have you spend days trying to solve a problem, using time, resources and people only to realize that what you fixed (or trying to fix) was actually not the real problem?

This is called the XY problem. For example

  • User wants to do X.
  • User doesn’t know how to do X, but thinks they can fumble their way to a solution if they can just manage to do Y.
  • User doesn’t know how to do Y either.
  • User asks for help with Y.
  • Others try to help user with Y, but are confused because Y seems like a strange problem to want to solve.
  • After much interaction and wasted time, it finally becomes clear that the user really wants help with X, and that Y wasn’t even a suitable solution for X.

The XY problem is asking about your attempted solution rather than your actual problem . This leads to wasted time and energy for both the people asking for help and those providing help.

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